Most families start ABA therapy without knowing what to ask. The paperwork is thick, the waitlist was long, and you're just relieved to finally have a start date. But the intake process is also the best window you'll have into how a program actually operates — before your child becomes part of it.
The questions below are not gotchas. They're things every reputable ABA provider should be able to answer clearly. If a program struggles with any of them, that's information worth having before you begin.
Who will actually be working with my child?
This is the question families most often forget to ask — and it matters more than almost any other.
In ABA therapy, the person who spends the most time with your child is typically a Registered Behavior Technician (RBT) — a trained paraprofessional who runs the day-to-day sessions. A Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) designs the treatment plan, supervises the RBT, and adjusts goals over time. They are not the same role, and they are not usually in the room together for every session.
- How often will my child's BCBA be present during sessions — not just reviewing data, but actually in the room?
- Will the same RBT work with my child consistently, or will staff rotate?
- What are the BCBA's credentials, and how long have they been practicing?
- What happens when our assigned RBT is sick or leaves the program?
Consistency matters in ABA. Frequent staff turnover is one of the most common sources of regression — not because ABA doesn't work, but because the relationship between your child and their therapist is part of what makes the work effective.
How will you figure out what my child actually needs?
Every ABA program should begin with an assessment — not a generic intake form, but a structured process to understand your child's current skills, challenges, learning style, and what motivates them.
- What assessment tools do you use, and what will the results tell us?
- Who conducts the assessment — the BCBA or someone else?
- How will you involve me and my family in identifying goals?
- How long does the assessment take before therapy actually starts?
What to watch for
If a program proposes goals before completing an assessment, or if the goals feel generic rather than specific to your child, ask more questions. Goals like "reduce problem behavior" or "improve communication" are not measurable. Goals should name the specific skill, the context, and the criteria for mastery.
How will you measure whether it's working?
Data collection is the backbone of ABA. Progress should not be something you hear about in vague terms — it should be something you can see.
- How often will I receive progress reports, and what will they show?
- Can I see the data being collected during sessions?
- How long does it typically take to see measurable progress on a new goal?
- What happens if a goal isn't progressing — what's the protocol for changing course?
A good BCBA won't just show you data — they'll explain what it means and what they're planning to do next. If the answer to "what happens when something isn't working?" is vague or defensive, pay attention to that.
How many hours per week does my child need, and why?
Hour recommendations vary widely across programs, and they should be based on your child's individual profile — not an insurance maximum or a one-size model.
- Why are you recommending this specific number of hours for my child?
- What research supports this recommendation for children with my child's profile?
- How will the number of hours change as my child progresses?
- What happens if our family can't sustain this schedule — is there a reduced-hours option?
For more on what drives ABA therapy duration, see our guide on how long ABA therapy typically takes.
How does your program handle problem behavior?
If your child has challenging behavior — aggression, self-injury, elopement, meltdowns — this conversation needs to happen before therapy starts, not after an incident.
- Will you conduct a Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA) to understand why the behavior is happening?
- Will there be a written Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP), and can I review it?
- Does your program use any punishment-based procedures? If so, which ones?
- What is the protocol if my child has a significant behavioral incident during a session?
Your rights
You have the right to understand, review, and refuse any component of your child's behavior plan. A Behavior Intervention Plan should be explained to you in plain language, not handed to you as a document to sign. Ask for a meeting to walk through it before services begin.
How will my family be involved?
ABA doesn't stop when the session ends. Skills learned in therapy need to be practiced at home, at school, and in the community to generalize — and that requires family participation.
- Is parent training included in our child's program, or is it an add-on?
- How often will we meet with the BCBA to review goals and progress?
- Will you work with our child's school or other providers?
- What are the most important things we can be doing at home to support what you're working on?
Programs that treat parents as passive observers tend to produce slower generalization. The BCBA's job includes teaching you to be a more effective support for your child — that should be built into the program, not optional.
What does a typical session look like?
Many parents don't have a clear picture of what ABA actually looks like day-to-day. It's worth asking — and worth observing before you commit.
- Can we observe a session before our child begins?
- Where do sessions take place — clinic, home, school, or community?
- What does a session structure look like for a child my child's age?
- How do you make sessions engaging for children who resist or become frustrated?
If you want a detailed picture of what to expect, read our post on what happens at a first ABA therapy session.
What happens when my child meets their goals?
Goal mastery is not the end — it's the beginning of the next phase. Ask about what that looks like before services begin.
- What is the process for adding new goals when current ones are mastered?
- How do you ensure that mastered skills are maintained over time?
- How and when do you make decisions about reducing or ending services?
- What does transition planning look like when a child is ready to move on?
The goal of ABA is to build skills that transfer into everyday life and, eventually, to make intensive services unnecessary. Programs that have a clear answer to discharge and transition planning are usually the ones that are actually tracking toward meaningful outcomes — not just billing hours.
A quick checklist before you decide
When evaluating any ABA provider, you should be able to check off each of the following:
- A named BCBA who will supervise your child's program, with verifiable credentials
- A clear explanation of how many hours are recommended and why
- An assessment process that happens before goals are set
- Written documentation of goals, methods, and behavior plans — that you can review
- A data-sharing process that lets you see progress in real numbers
- A process for changing course when something isn't working
- A parent training component built into the program
- A clear answer to what happens if your assigned staff member changes
If a provider can't address these points clearly before you start, consider whether that clarity will improve once your child is enrolled. Usually, it does not.
For more on evaluating providers, see our guide on how to choose an ABA therapy provider.
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